Life

I heard something on the radio the other day that has been bothering me ever since. 

And when something continues to bother me- I blog.

NPR, or the local station, was covering a story about this program that runs in Philly for troubled/less fortunate kids. They give them mentors through junior and high school, up to the end of their sophomore year in college, a fabulous program. Part of what the kids are required to do is a nature experience for a week or two. Most of the kids dreaded and complained about it but all of them came out feeling strong, feeling empowered and confident.

I'm sure you're wondering why such a great story would bother me. Well...apparently they have put $30,000 down for each pupil, to observe and research what makes an individual successful. And the answer is that: going through trials, working, experiencing failure, struggling in life...these are the things that help one gain confidence and perseverance, all the traits that contribute to success.

Their conclusive research baffled me. Has our society really strayed so far from core values of life and success to deem it necessary to spend thousands, if not millions, on research to find an answer on one of life's most obvious and valuable lessons?

I'm so afraid for my children because there are so many false ideas that life is and should always be fair. That they deserve a trophy no matter what. That a competitive drive is frowned upon.  That children shouldn't participate in house work because they "work" hard enough at school. Its just so backward!

I am so grateful for my parents. They worked me hard and taught me how to take pride in my work. They never gave up on me. They taught me that I am in charge of my future, to get up when I fall, to learn from my mistakes and to keep going through obstacles or when others have told "I couldn't."

I am so grateful for the gospel. For the knowledge that I alone, am responsible for my testimony. For the knowledge of what follows this life. That I have to, and want to, work hard to return to my Heavenly Father.

I can do hard things, I am expected to. 

And I am expected to pass on these same teachings to my children.